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容姿と性格
2017-10-24 06:03


昨日買ってあげた猫ちゃんの寝床、入ろうかどうか迷っているさくら。

I had to spend about an hour sending some money yesterday. I was hoping to avoid one of the employees there, because I don’t like his character.
I’ve always thought that people who are not so great looking tend to be nice and warm to make up for their lack of looks, or sometimes they make self-deprecating jokes to prevent someone else from making fun of them first.
But the man in the bank is neither tall nor handsome, but he is arrogant, and not that polite, not only with me but with other clients as well.
I think it is because he doesn’t want to be taken lightly, and he hates to be looked down upon because of his size and build. This is also one of the ways to guard against abuse. Like they say, "The best defense is a strong offense."

Je pense toujours que les gens qui ne sont pas si beaux ont tendance à être gentils et aimables pour compenser leur manque de look, ou parfois ils font des blagues pour se protéger avant que quelqu'un ne les taquine.
Mais je connais un homme qui n'est ni grand ni beau, mais arrogant et pas si poli.
Je pense que c'est parce qu'il veut éviter qu’on se moque de lui,
il déteste être rabaissé à cause de son apparence.

容貌も悪く性格も良くない人は最悪です。
見かけがよくなくても性格が良ければそれをカバーできると思います。
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Self esteem. 自己像と人格。People who have got good love from the parents usually develop good and stable self images. On the contrary, one who have been abused by the parents frequently has poor self esteem. Unfortunately, cute babies tend to be loved by the parents and agry one not. Rarely some of them may create stable self image through so much efforts and endurance. However, people who were born poor or handicapped usually develop unsympathetic and rather bitter character.
Posted by motomasaong at 2017-10-24 13:49 | 編集
こんばんは。

銀行に行かれた時のお話のようですね。

その銀行員の態度が気に入らないということなのだと思いますが、
プラス、その銀行員の容姿がReikoさんのお好みではなかったと(笑)。

私が嫌いなタイプは、ハンサムだけど性格の歪んでいる人かなー。
仮に太っちょハゲで背の低い性格の歪んだ人は、同情してしまうかも
(きっと何か辛い事があって性格が歪んだんだろうな~と)。

それにしても、サービス業なのに性格のよろしくない人には
担当してほしくないですね。


Posted by 雨スピ at 2017-10-24 17:04 | 編集
motomasaongさん、

Children are sensitive, so favoritism in a family can be devastating.

My mother doted on my brother, and my father lived in the male-dominated society, so he preferred my brother as well. I became a rational, but somewhat cold towards my parents. I was happy to live apart from them in Tokyo while I was a student, and after graduating from university, I got married immediately as I didn’t want to live with them. How ironic, I have been visiting my father every other day for three years since he suddenly felt he got too old to care for himself, and asked me to visit him often.

I devoted my life to my son, so he is lucky he is an only child.


Posted by ReikoJanvier at 2017-10-25 06:04 | 編集
雨スピさん、
容姿が気に入らなかったわけではないです。
その人は誰にでも同じような態度ですが、もっと柔らかい物腰になった方がいいかなと思いました。
容姿が悪いのなら気前がよくなくてはいけないと私は思っています。
Posted by ReikoJanvier at 2017-10-25 06:06 | 編集
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